Why do we?

Why do we use titles to get our way and manipulate situations? We think because we have a title in allows us to have our way like spoiled children. Truth is titles come with responsibility and unless we are willing to carry about that responsibility we shouldn’t pick up these titles. For example why get married if you are not able and willing to perform the duties of a wife or husband? Or, why have children if you aren’t ready to be a parent? I see a lot of misrepresented offices full of people using titles to acquire access to different places and yet the duties aren’t being carried out. Could this be one of the reasons why our society and children are so messed up?